"How to Find Your Man"
for Women Over 50
with Mairi Macleod PhD
Small-Group Program
with 12 months support
Life is too short to spend it alone
You've worked hard and found success. But that's no fun without someone to share it with.
Or you've been through divorce and come out the other side - strong and independent. But that doesn't mean you want to be on your own!
- Do you believe there are no decent men left out there?
- Are you attracted to guys who don't meet your needs?
- Do you lack confidence in your own ability to attract the right man?
- Have you tried online dating but find yourself wasting time messaging and meeting totally unsuitable men?
- Are you exasperated about where to even find good men?
If your answer to any of these questions is “yes” then I know where you’re coming from. I’ve been there and I can help!
The Good News is You CAN Find a Great Partner!
It is totally possible to find a great partner for long-term happiness, to be with that guy who can share in your dreams and have your back.
But it’s not about secrets or appealing to the "Universe", it’s about understanding why we humans have the tendencies, foibles and preferences we do when it comes to who we fancy and what we want from relationships. And it’s about using that knowledge to analyse what’s going on in our own lives and to make practical changes for the better.
The Dating Evolved program will teach you exactly what you need to know AND will give you the support you need to be able to get into a relationship that makes you happy in the long term!
This is THE program for smart women who are serious about forging a realistic, scientifically informed path to find the man they need for a fabulous, secure relationship.
Your Host: Mairi Macleod PhD
Behavioural Biologist & Dating Consultant
I’m a behavioural biologist, and after many years of writing, researching and consulting on human behaviour around relationships I’ve developed strategies to help people find the love they crave – all using peer-reviewed science and a LOT of experience.
I’ll show you how to ditch the disempowering attitude around trying to be appealing to men in general, and instead I’ll give you the tools to identify, attract, desire, and find, the kind of man who has what it takes to co-create a fantastic, secure relationship with you!
If you'd like to have a chat about the program, or other ways I can help you, just book a complementary call with me HERE.
Mairi Macleod PhD
BY GOING THROUGH THE
DATING EVOLVED PROGRAM YOU WILL LEARN:
- How to build your confidence and enhance your openness, desirability, and probability of being approached or messaged
- How to identify the men who could make you happy long-term
- How to come to DESIRE a GOOD man
- How to side-step “players”, “scammers”, or simply men who aren’t ready for the kind of relationship that will make you happy
- How to find a SECURE relationship
- How to write your online dating profile in a compelling way to be a filter for the men you don’t want and magnet for the man you need
- How to handle early dates and co-create the spark
- How to set your pace and boundaries to get the kind of relationship you want
- Where and how to meet the right kind of men
Why Listen to Me?
I’ve been where you are now!
I’ve spent a long time as a single mum, on my own, or getting into relationships that didn’t work for me. But eventually I began to realise, given that I’ve spent the last 15 years researching and writing on human behaviour, that I should take a more scientific approach.
The Science Works!
So I started applying my knowledge of the biology and psychology of mate choice and dynamics to my relationship decision-making, with the result that I’m now happily married to a wonderful man. If I’d stuck with my old relationship habits I’d never have given him a chance and wouldn’t have discovered what a totally stellar bloke he is!
So now I want to help you find the love of your life - as I have, and I’ve developed this program to give you the tools and the support to do exactly that.
Here's what's in the Program:
The Dating Evolved Small-Group Program has been designed to give you all the science-based and practical advice you need to identify, attract, desire, and find, the man you need for the relationship you want.
The program also provides you with support, friendship, camaraderie, accountability and motivation from other women going through the program with you, and depending on the package you choose – a LOT of one-to-one support from Mairi. You will not be alone with this.
There are 5 main elements to the program:
- Weekly "Pod Calls" on Zoom X 7
- The online course “How to Find Your Man”
- The Dating Evolved Academy – 12 months membership – includes 2 group Zoom calls per month.
- Your Online Dating Profile Review
- 12 months of on-demand one-to-one support from Mairi (with Premium Package only)
Different packages are available incorporating as many of the elements as you'd like, catering for differing needs for personal support from Mairi, and to suit all budgets. Book a call >>HERE<< to discuss the options with Mairi so we can provide exactly what you need.
Read on for full details of each element of the Small-Group Program!
Element #1: Your Weekly Pod Calls:
NEXT START DATE: Summer 2025 date TBC
This is the core part of the program (with 5 start dates per year) where you’ll get together with Mairi and the same small group (max 8) of women each week for a Zoom coaching call. On these calls you’ll get to know other women and be able to discuss dating issues, challenges and successes. Experience tells me you’ll get a massive amount of support and encouragement from your pod-mates.
We’ll start with an introductory session and then we’ll go through the six modules of the Dating Evolved course: "How to Find Your Man" – one module per week, so seven sessions in all, where we can discuss the theory and practice. You'll have instant access to the video presentations and exercises for each module as soon as you sign up, and you’ll learn how the advice can be implemented to help you in your own personal situation. We’ll also have a couple of breakout sessions within each call where you can discuss the learnings and get to know each other.
Previous participants have absolutely loved learning with the other women in their group and have made great friends and as well as fantastic relationship progress.
You’ll pick a date/time slot for your pod call when you sign up; this will typically be in the cohorts beginning soon after you sign up for the program, but it’s perfectly fine to defer to later in the year if preferred.
In addition to your 7 pod calls, you’ll have monthly group calls, live advice sessions, and ongoing support within the Dating Evolved Academy for 12 months – scroll down for more info on the DEA.
Element #2: The Course - "How to Find Your Man"
IMMEDIATE ACCESS
As part of your program you’ll have lifetime access to this 6-module transformative course. This includes video presentations for all modules (at least 1 hour of video in total per module), where you’ll learn exactly how to find the man you need for the relationship you want (and we’ll go through each module and what it means for you personally during the Pod Calls).
You’ll also have a workbook with exercises for each module, a "Master Template for the Man You Need", PDF summaries of each module, bonus videos, bonus mini-course and links to further resources.
Here's what's in the course:
Confidence
In module #1 you’ll learn:
- what men want, why this varies, and why there really is someone out there for everyone
- how to distinguish between what you want in a man – and can potentially compromise on – and what you actually need for a happy relationship
- how to nail your self esteem and confidence: your most powerful tools in finding the man you need for a great relationship
Mate Value
In module #2 you’ll learn:
- what “mate value” is and why it’s so important that you find a partner who has similar "consensual" mate value to yourself
- how to avoid being attracted to high mate value men who actually have low value as a partner
- how to increase your own "unique mate value" to attract a quality guy who will treat you like a queen and build a fantastic relationship with you
Personality
In module #3 you’ll learn:
- your score in the Big 5 personality factors and what this means for your relationships
- how to look for partners based on what you need for a happy, lasting relationship, rather than on what you think you want right now
- how to come to desire good men rather than the sexy, edgy, super-confident types
- what are the signals of personality types to go for, and those you MUST avoid
Attachment Style
In module #4 you’ll learn:
- your attachment style and what it means for your relationship behaviour and what you need to be happy
- how to identify a potential partner’s attachment style and how to select on the basis of their ability to meet your needs
- strategies for insecures to find the relationship that gives them security and happiness
Online Dating
In module #5 you’ll learn:
- how online dating can be fun when you know to approach it positively and how to be efficient with your time and energy
- how to write your profile to be compelling for men who are right for you, and to make them want to get in touch
- maximise your chances of finding that gem of a guy, while avoiding players, con-artists and men who just don’t have what it takes to make you happy
- how to handle messaging, show off your unique quirks, and get the conversation flowing
Meeting Men
In module #6 you’ll learn:
- how to have an “abundance mindset” and confidently meet new men
- where to go to have the best chance of meeting the right guys for you
- how to set your boundaries to rule out the wrong guys and get relationships off on the right foot
- how to avoid wasting emotional energy and to pace your early encounters in a way that leads to genuine relationship happiness
Downloads
- Your Workbook with exercises and questionnaires to complete as you go through the course modules
- Your Master Template for the Man You Need which you'll personalise and complete during the course to give you a list of objective criteria which will help you find the right man for you
- PDF summaries of all module presentations to make it easy to check back on the main points
Element #3: the Dating Evolved Academy
12-month Membership
START DATE: IMMEDIATE
In the Dating Evolved Academy you'll join our community where you'll have ongoing help and advice from me and you'll enjoy support, encouragement, accountability and friendship with the other women who have, or are going through the program. You will not be on your own with this!
You'll have monthly group calls with other Dating Evolvers, we'll have advice sessions, discussions about the issues that are coming up for members, and there will be breakout rooms - one for meeting new people and the other for catching up with your original pod members.
There will be additional live sessions each month such as "Online Dating Workshops", "Member Spotlights" and live sessions on various dating topics with me and/or other experts.
I've found this ongoing support is incredibly effective in helping keep you motivated and taking action until you find your man. And once you are in a relationship, I know that the advice and support you’ll receive from me and from others will prove invaluable as you navigate the early stages.
Element #4: Your Online Dating Profile Review:
WHENEVER YOU'RE READY!
We’ll have a 30 minute one-to-one Zoom call where we’ll go through your draft profile and I’ll make suggestions for how you can make it unique and compelling for the right men for you, while also helping you filter out the wrong men.
After our call I’ll send you a Word document with my notes and the edits suggested during the call. If necessary, you can send your edited version back to me for another look and I’ll suggest any further changes. This way you’ll be in the best possible place to succeed with Online Dating.
Element #5: One-to-one Support with Mairi for 12 Months
START DATE: IMMEDIATE
If you choose the Premium Support Package (see below), in addition to your pod calls, Dating Evolved Academy group calls and sessions, and your online dating profile review, you’ll also have on-demand one-to-one support from me EVERY MONTH for a year!
You choose what we talk about: this might be drilling down on issues around attachment, or recurring relationship problems in the past. Perhaps you’ll want to discuss a fledgling relationship, or you’re seeking an opinion on what to say to a guy you’re thinking of messaging – or perhaps an opinion on the messages he’s been sending you. Maybe you’d like to have a debrief on a date you’ve been on, or you simply want to have a chat for moral support before you meet someone for the first time. I can help with all of these things.
If you sign up for the Premium Support Package you’ll have an initial 1-hour Zoom call with me in the first month, so we can see what your needs and challenges are around dating and relationships. I’ll give you pointers as to how to get going and direct you to the help that you, specifically need.
You’ll then have the option of a 30 min Zoom call with me each month for the rest of the 12 months. I’ll give you a link to book a time with me in advance or, if you need some immediate help, you can email me and where possible we can jump on a Zoom or phone call right away. If you don’t use a call one month you’ll have the option of carrying it over to the next month (with a maximum of 2 calls in one month).
With the combination of input from your Pod, your Dating Evolved Academy group calls, and one to one chats with me, you’ll feel held and supported. And you’ll feel confident that you can get out there and find a fantastic guy and get going with a wonderful relationship.
NB: Whatever package you choose, you’ll have the option of booking additional one-to-one sessions at a discounted rate.
Bonus Videos
Biology Plus
For those who love to understand the science of human behaviour and why we do what we do, this module is a deeper dive into the biology and psychology of our relationship habits.
You’ll learn why infidelity happens, what sociosexuality is and why it tends to differ in men and women, and what love is actually for.
Menopause, Hormones & You
In this session I explain what your body is up to during menopause, and how best to deal with any symptoms. I also show you how to run your dates in a way that makes you most comfortable.
Finally, I explain how you can make the most of this fantastic and productive time of life, freed from the shackles of cycling hormones.
Social Support Sorted
In this bonus module you’ll learn why you need a quality social network around you to be in the strongest and most confident position to meet the right man for you.
I also show you exactly how to build and strengthen your network to grow your healthiness, happiness and even your attractiveness and approachability.
Bonus Mini-Course
Put Your Best Face Forward
By Donna Green, professional photographer and personal branding specialist.
Learn how to show the best version of the real you in your dating profile photos and social media posts. In this fabulous 2-module mini-course, Donna shows you how to take self-portraits to show who you really are, not just what you look like. She’ll help you curate the perfect selection of photos to show off the uniqueness that is you.
My Promise to You:
At the end of this program, if you go through the modules, complete the exercises, and attend the live sessions
you will know exactly how to identify, find, attract and desire, the man you need - for the relationship you want
Your Journey to Finding the Man You Need
Sign up for our dating evolved program
Pick a date/time for your Pod Calls to start; get lifetime access to all course module videos & workbooks and enjoy 7 weekly Zoom sessions with your small pod group of women, and see how the science applies to you personally. Learn exactly how to identify, attract, desire, and find the man YOU need for a happy, secure relationship.
Your wingwomen will have your back
Through our live pod Zoom calls, your pod’s private WhatsApp group, and the live Dating Evolved Academy group calls and advice sessions, you’ll have personalised support and advice, as well as discussion and camaraderie with other women who know where you’re coming from. You’ll make great friends and you won’t be alone with this!
Go and find your man!
Get out there (IRL and online), confident and armed with the knowledge of what you need and how to get it. Keep going with regular group calls and advice sessions, chat in the WhatsApp and Facebook groups, and have regular one-to-one chats with Mairi (depending on package) – to keep you on track, supported, and accountable until you find that great guy!
Your Investment
The Small-Group Program with 12 Months Support has 2 options to choose from:
Our program has 2 joining options with differing levels of support and financial investment:
- The Standard Package: This includes all the group support elements and the online dating profile review
- The Premium Package:
This includes everything in the Standard Package, plus 12 months of on-demand one-to-one support from Mairi
The Weekly Pod Calls Element will be exactly the same for both packages.
New pods start calls on 4 or 5 dates per year. The next pod will begin:
Tuesday 19th August 2025
Your Investment:
£130 x 12mo
or £1560 single payment
Includes:
- Pod Calls: A weekly 2-hour small-group Zoom call with Mairi for 7 weeks
- Course materials (videos, workbooks, PDFs) Lifetime access
- 12 MONTHS Membership of the Dating Evolved Academy (includes monthly group call, additional live sessions, recordings of previous sessions)
- Private WhatsApp Group Membership (optional)
Bonuses
- Bonus Videos
- Bonus Mini-Course - " Put your best face forward"
- Review of your online dating profile (inc 30 min 121 with Mairi)
Your Investment:
£190 x 12mo
or £2280 single payment
Includes:
- Pod Calls: A weekly 2-hour small-group Zoom call with Mairi for 7 weeks
- Course materials (videos, workbooks, PDFs) Lifetime access
- 12 MONTHS Membership of the Dating Evolved Academy (includes monthly group call, additional live sessions, recordings of previous sessions)
- Private WhatsApp Group Membership (optional)
Bonuses
- Bonus Videos
- Bonus Mini-Course - " Put your best face forward"
- Review of your online dating profile (inc 30 min 121 with Mairi
PLUS
- An on-demand one-to-one Zoom or phone call with Mairi each month for 12 months to give you ongoing personal support.
Each call will last up to 30 mins, except for the first call which will last up to one hour.
If unused a call can be carried over to the next month (max 2 calls in a month)
Reserve your Premium space in the Tues 19 August Pod
Start Small-Group Program now and choose Pod date later
This program transforms lives!
Is the Dating Evolved Small-Group Program as good as we say it is? You don't have to take our word for it - check out what some of our previous clients have to say!
Adele Needham, 60
Going through the Dating Evolved Group Program has been a game changer for Adele. It’s been a massive confidence boost and she learned how to focus on finding a man who has what it takes to make her happy. And now she has – she’s in a relationship with a wonderful guy!
Katy Gordon, 56
The Dating Evolved program gave Katy the tools and the confidence, and the other ladies in her group gave her the inspiration and motivation to keep going until she found her man. Best money she’s ever spent, she says!
What other women are saying about Mairi’s work:
"I’ve recently completed the 7 weeks of the Dating Evolved course and it has been absolutely phenomenal! I can honestly say I have met the love of my life – my soul mate and it really is all down to what I’ve learned on this course. Thank you Mairi – I have never been so happy x "
Nancy Harvey, 52
"Armed with Mairi’s advice I signed up to an online dating site and did pretty much what she suggested and I was amazed – all these men came back to me wanting a date… I met Chris and 10 weeks in we're still together and very much in love!"
Jane Rayner, 54
"I REALLY enjoy the interaction from the wonderful women in the Dating Evolved community. I think if I'd had this group sooner, I'd have steered clear of some of my disastrous encounters!
Now I'm with a lovely man and am SO very lucky to have him in my life"
Jane McLellan, 58
"The course has taught me how to actually desire the man I need, rather than simply relying on chemistry, and I’m putting the advice into practice! I’m currently seeing a lovely man, seeing where it goes and simply enjoying the journey. I would so recommend this program!"
Shona Hotson, 59
"Thank you to Mairi and all the dear ladies in my group who encouraged me and led by example. I eventually signed up to online dating for the first time ever. One of my likes from the first day or so online has developed into the start of what could be a lovely relationship. I don't think I could have made this progress without having done the Dating Evolved course and ongoing monthly support group."
Flora K, 60
“The Dating Evolved Program has taught me to take off the blinkers! That means getting wise about noticing the qualities that really matter in guys, and spotting red flags. But it also means widening your field of view. That’s what I’ve done and I’m now with a lovely guy. It’s so nice having someone in my life!”
Jenny Williams, 54
FAQ
I’m under 50 – can I still do the program?
What if I'm not looking for a male partner?
Will I have access to all course materials immediately when I sign up?
Do you offer a payment plan?
Will you keep my data safe and our calls confidential?
Do you give refunds?
What if I can't make all the live calls?
Is this program for me?
- Are you a single woman and you’re ready for a great new relationship?
- Are you prepared to put in some time and effort to make this happen?
- Do you appreciate the need to be proactive in looking for your man rather than expecting the "universe" to deliver him?
- Are you ready to open your mind to new ideas about how to find the right man for you?
- Would you like to learn how to identify, attract, desire, and find a man who has what it takes to co-create a wonderful, secure, lasting relationship with you?
If your answers to all of these questions is “YES” then this program is most definitely for you!
Don't waste any more time. Sign up now to secure your place and let’s get this show on the road for you so we can help you find your man!
